Friday, July 22, 2005

Is it ever acceptable to be disrespectful?

When does it become okay to be disrespectful...? And is there too far once it starts?... Because who is to judge... One insult to one person, maybe a much worse to another... Right? So there is no scientific method ... Correct? Which means there cannot be an absolute... But there must be a line or an area that disrespectful is okay, because I see people (NOT ME) get away with it, time and time again... On that same note... Aren't loved ones supposed to be less susceptible to the affects of harsh words from another loved one, knowing ,oddly enough, that no matter how horrid the WORDS are, they are said out of love?... Why when you explain to someone (or at least try) that they have hurt you... They perceive it as an attack... And then... Which is the last thing you need at the moment, you are attacked almost instantly?.... All you are looking for is a little understanding, a few kinds words, soothing things (maybe its that whole Freudian thing, I doubt it though he was a sick Fuck)... Yet you are retaliated against... When you feel miserable, isn't the person in your life, supposed to be able to read that, and react in such a way, as to contradict it?... I know I do... Or at least try...
Maybe its human nature... Maybe its just my nature... But if you insult me... To an extent... Repeatedly.... There is a certain.... (I Don't know) "threshold" (if you will) where my insults start coming... And there is no limits and no holds barred when I get started... And I guess that's why I end up the bad guy.... But I'm not a monster! ... Or am I?...
I will miss the people... I love... That will never understand me... But I cannot change what I know is morally correct about me...
because I know there is so little.

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